I think it's sad that the highest divorce rates range from 1.1 in India to 54.9 in Sweden. Call me old fashioned, but I think a marriage should be a lifelong commitment that is meant to last. Well, to be fair, if you are going to put all this time, effort, and energy into it, you might as well be building it to last. I recently wrote an article all about the secrets of a happy married life, so I'm going to follow it up with this article about simple, tried and proven, things that you can do to bring the romance back into your relationship.
1) Give Compliments. Appreciate each other throughout the day. As the old saying goes: Tell her she's beautiful and she'll be beautiful. Compliment her on how lovely she looks, on how well she dresses, on her exceptional cooking skills, the way she cares for you, or the way she looks after the home and the children. Compliment him on the way he provides for your family, the way his aftershave smells, the way he takes care of you, the way he brings you flowers, takes you out to dinner, opens the car door for you, and kisses you goodnight. There's something to appreciate, if you'll just look for it.
2) Leave Sticky Notes. This is a practical way to make things alive again, and all it requires is a bit of time, a pen, and a sticky note paper! There's a story I once read about a couple that made a game out of leaving notes that read “SHMILY” wherever they could. They would try to see who could hide/post more of these notes than the other. Whether it was in the kitchen flour barrel, under the pillow, written in the mirror steam, or under the last sheet of toilet paper in the roll, they made sure to leave a note as many times as they could. At the end of the story the couple has grown old together. When the woman has died and the man kneels beside her, slips a note into her hand, kisses her head and says, “See How Much I Love You.”—If you really do, then leave tangible proof for your husband or wife to know it.
3) Fulfill Her Needs Before Satisfying The End Of Yours. This is a bigger issue for some couples, while others have no problems with it at all. I read a great quote that sums it up by saying: Nice guys finish last, because they make sure their woman comes first. —That could mean a lot of things, but I'm sure you understand what I'm hinting at. ;) When it comes to romance and sex in general, women require a lot more attention and stimulation to get things going. It can be pretty easy for her to lose her interest in the matter altogether if you are just in it for yourself. (pun intended.) Get it?
4) Do New Things Together. Don't always do everything the same way together. Going to the same restaurant, eating the same kind of food, taking the kids to the same park, or even doing it in the same position can become a drag and a rut. Just like you need to try new things in your personal life to keep yourself alert and excited about living, the same applies to your relationship. Check out the list of great restaurants where you have not been together and make plans to visit them. If either of you are into art, then a visit to the town art gallery could be enjoyable. Go for karaoke nights. Play paintball. Paint a picture together. Grow a herb garden together. Paint a room in the house and plan the interiors together. Doing new things together never ceases to bring the spark of those “first time” earlier days.
5) Be Old Fashioned and Bring Her Flowers. Bringing her flowers never grows old. If you want a sure way to bring a smile to her face, flowers along with a hug and few kind words are the quickest way to do it.
6) Have Spontaneous Sex. Why save it for when the kids are in bed, the dishes are washed and dried, the laundry is ironed and folded, and the house is dark and silent. Great sex just is a part of a great relationship—and not only from a guy's point of view. Make space and make time to get creative and make it happen. A lot of couples are facing the very real dilemma of extreme stress; not enough hours in the day to deal with the kids, the work, and the home; and even personal health issues. ED has also become a bit of a problem too. If you are suffering from ED, then counsel with your doctor about taking Viagra50mg tablets. Viagra for men, when coupled with a sufficient amount of foreplay, can help to make things better again.
7) When It Comes To Stress, leave the worries of your job outside of your bedroom. You can talk about your bad day, the kids, or your disdain for the weather while you're at the dinner table, but the bedroom is hallowed, just you and her.
Author Bio: John Smith is an avid writer and follower of good lifestyle and health habits. He specialists in writing articles on sexual health and some of the ED products like Viagra. He has a deep faith in the potential of natural cures and this is well reflected in her articles.
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